5 New Things I Learned About My Husband

Week #15:

1.  So, marriage can be frustrating at times. For women, it isn’t beneficial to get angry because your husband didn’t turn out the way you wanted. He is who he is. We have to just accept that. For men, be the best version of yourself you can be. Don’t settle for less. If you do, know that God would have wanted more for yourself.

2. I’ve actually been cooking a lot this week. Cheese has been the secret ingredient to everything I made. Eddie HATES it. Muahahah,

3. If you or your husband gets an iPad, be prepared to no longer be each other’s FAVORITE thing in the world. ;)

4. It’s okay to say sorry when you’re in the wrong.

5. Kisses, or just simple, physical contact, sometimes make things all better. When we went on a marriage preparation retreat, they mentioned that when you fight, the BEST thing to do is hold each other’s hands during the fight. It prevents both of you from losing your head and keeping calm. Now, I could see how that would work.

REFLECTION WEDNESDAY

Things that impacted me this week:

1) Watching this video over and over. So therapeutic and inspiring!

Now if only I can get the girls in my dance class to dance together…

2) This interactive website.

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This website seriously reminds me of my sister and her boyfriend, Martin. They always play weird beat games in the car. Makes long car rides interesting.

Things that distracted me this week:

3) Walking Dead!

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Started a new show this week, The Walking Dead! Sooo good. And, I’m actually glad to be using Netflix again. Makes me want to be a zombie for Halloween. :)

4) Lack of sleep

I can’t seem to keep on my side of the bed..or sleep at all for that matter. By the time I find a comfortable position, it’s morning time. :( My husband is probably getting sick of me by this point.

Happy Wednesday Everyone! I hope your week is smooth sailing so far. :)

Quote of the Week

“Most of the things you worry about NEVER happen!”

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Another Monday!

I need to pump myself up for this week. It’s gonna be another crazy one, folks! We have one of my husband’s friends staying with us this week. That should change things up a bit. I love being a host of people by the way. I always clean the extra room and put out extra blankets and towels to make sure they feel comfortable. As I start this week off with this quote, I’d like to admit that I’m kind of a worry wart. I hate that about myself, but sometimes I cannot even help it. My husbands gets so annoyed because I can’t just relax. I’ve always been uptight since I was in high school…oh the dreaded high school days! Well, I’m happy to announce that today is the first day I’m going to try and work on improving this about myself. Worrying is not worth it..FIRST OF ALL. Secondly, we need to enjoy and celebrate the life we have here because that’s what it’s all about. There’s no time for worrying and adding to the unnecessary stress that already exists in the real world.

Anybody with me?!? Let’s do this, then.

5 New Things I Learned About My Husband

Week #13:

1.  Eddie has an immense love for PEANUT BUTTER. I’ve never seen someone eat so much of it by themselves.

2. He often jokes with his friends and tells them “Don’t get married. Don’t do it!” He’s like my dad in a way. But, I think he just doesn’t want to reveal the secret to true happiness. ;)

3. He’s been cooking a lot lately. I feel kind of bad I haven’t contributed as much. But, then again, if he’s good at something..why take away the pleasure of someone doing what they are good at?!

4.  He can sing almost all the lupe fiasco songs. He really enjoyed the concert as much as it messed up his homework schedule.

5. Sometimes in married life, we get used to routines. For example, Monday – Wednesday might be homework nights, Thursday movie night, Friday go out night. Weekends we stay busy. IF at times you want to change it up a bit, to break from the routine, be sure to have each other’s back. As much as I want to encourage breaking from routines, sometimes it might put your spouse back on a deadline that needs to be met. If it does, the nice and courteous thing would be to help meet that deadline and alleviate any further stress. I hope that made sense!

REFLECTION WEDNESDAY

So..another Wednesday. It’s been interesting using these Wednesdays to reflect on the happenings of the week. Very therapeutic I might add. Do you take time and reflect during the week? It’s actually a little difficult and I have to force myself to think about what I did and how it affected me. But, all in all I think it’s good for me. You should try it too and let me know how it goes!

Things that impacted me this week:

1) Randomly going to a Lupe Fiasco concert and seeing the smile on my husband’s face

I can’t remember the last time we ever went to a concert. We’re not concert people. I kind of wish we were, but I understand now why we are not. The music was great. Lupe sounded exactly like he does on the radio. I got really excited when I knew some of the songs. My husband was in heaven! He kept saying, “This is so awesome!” and he kept singing every word to every song. I’m always astounded at how well he can remember lyrics to songs, and can’t remember where he puts his darn keys. The only thing that was a little hard for me was how LOUD it was. I feel like I won’t be able to hear anything for days. Haha.

2) Quality time to craft!

I rarely ever have time to sit down and make things. When I do, you’ll see it on my blog. But, there’s so much I want to do/make that I never get around to. On my day off yesterday, I was able to write a record of 3 letters! WOW! Sound the cymbals! That’s a lot for me. I couldn’t believe it’s taken me about a year to get to that though. So terrible. Anyway, I finally did it and it was SO FUN! Also very therapeutic to use the right side of your brain. Do you make your own cards? Or do you buy them? They have some cute cards nowadays so it’s kind of tempting. But, I try to hand-make everything and hand write which tends to take up more time. :) I was proud of the results though! Above is a gift card I wrapped and sent to friends who just had a little baby boy named “Brayden.” We missed his baptism on Saturday so I felt really bad.

Things that distracted me this week:

3) Bad Dreams

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Usually it’s me suffering from a bad case of nightmares and lack of sleep. However, this week it was my husband. Last night, I heard him breathing heavily which was strange. Luckily, I was awake so I woke him up out of it. He told me in the morning that he was having a nightmare. “A Nightmare?,” I said. “You never have nightmares.” I think it was because this past weekend his dad mentioned something about experiencing ghosts in his house. This is the house he grew up in and Eddie has always believed it to be haunted. Now, his beliefs have been confirmed and witnessed by someone else. Spooky, right? In perfect time for Halloween I guess…

4) Trying to come up with a Halloween Costume

I don’t know what is is..but I never really liked Halloween. It always frightened me and I haven’t gone trick or treatin’ in years it seems! Anyway, this year we are trying to be different and actually celebrate it for once by watching Rocky Horror. I’m a virgin when it comes to Rocky Horror and apparently there are huge fan clubs and almost a cult~ish following. Well, we’re just going to watch the show and it is required to dress up! So, naturally, I’m stressing out because I have NO IDEA what to be for Halloween. I’m also running out of time. I did come across some potential winners, but still unsure of what to do. Here are some I liked:

Mary Poppins! (Who doesn’t like a spoonful of sugar to help the medicine go down?)

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The Incredibles! (The only thing that gets me with this costume is the price! Yikes!)

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How cool would it be to be a peacock!

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This owl costume looks fun to make!

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 Eddie has this exact penguin costume..but what can I be that goes with it:?source

Can’t go wrong with Mario kart characters!

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 Gnomes anyone?source

How about sexy sushi? Yum? or Not Yum?

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Space costumes!

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Fox pair! (This is kind of fun.)

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Okay, that’s enough. Hopefully I come up with an idea soon so if I have to make it, I have time. Any ideas guys? I need help.